WHILE GROWING UP...

The process of being an adult is one of the most important periods in our lives.It is thought generally problematic because of uncertain behaviours and instable emotions.A teenager’s mood can change every moment easily,so they can be in contradiction with themselves.As a result of this, their reactions can’t be expected in advance.They can even react to the same situation in a different manner. Teenagers try to balance between their own world and real world.In fact,their only aim is to identify themselves.Their whole efforts are for the sake of proving their identities.In order to achieve this,they want to live in freedom and make their own decisions as an individual.At this point,to give them ENOUGH freedom becomes much more essential not to have nervous relationships with them.It is a delicate issue due to the rate of freedom. Unfortunately,being independent can be understood by some teenagers as being irresponsible!They can ignore their basic missions or by saying ‘’I am free!’’ they can do undesirable things.Freedom can leads to failures in their lives when used excessively!Therefore;its limits must be set in the beginning.In this way,children learn determinig their choices and also accepting their consequences. Teenagers can be aware of life and its facts by learning how to stand on their own feet.They choose their path by experiencing.They begin to form their personalities in a healthy way with the help of (enough) freedom.